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halla
post May 27, 2012, 03:26 PM
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Hi!

I am in a committed long distance relationship for past one year but our parents are still unaware about this fact. Her parents are very conservative type of people. For the next two months, we both are free (completely free from jobs etc). I am planning to take her to a long trip in the country but the issue is that how she will get of her house? She is living with her parents nowadays. She cant leave them as it is, she cant tell about me either, but she want to come for the trip. So any suggestions on how to bring her along without letting her parents know about it?

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post May 27, 2012, 06:06 PM
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I think you are being unrealistic. Parents are not stupid, the lie will be exposed sooner or later. Are you prepared for the consequences? Is she?

It is understandable you want to take her to that trip but will she be able to go back to her life after the trip? You said they are very conservative?

There should be a good reason to why they are not aware of your relationship yet. If not WTF are you waiting for? Maybe this holiday is a good oportunity to speak to them because I donīt think you are going to make a good first impresion at all by kidnapping their daughter for a secret and possibly torrid trip across the country.
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post May 28, 2012, 12:20 AM
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QUOTE(Jakare @ May 28, 2012, 04:36 AM) *

I think you are being unrealistic. Parents are not stupid, the lie will be exposed sooner or later. Are you prepared for the consequences? Is she?

It is understandable you want to take her to that trip but will she be able to go back to his life after the trip? You said they are very conservative?

There should be a good reason to why they are not aware of your relationship yet. If not WTF are you waiting for? Maybe this holiday is a good oportunity to speak to them because I donīt think you are going to make a good first impresion at all by kidnapping their daughter for a secret and possibly torrid trip across the country.


I got your point but we will tell them when right time comes. For now, I dont think it has come. Consequences can be dealt later, not afraid of them. Only thing I need is some or the other way, she can come out of her home, only if some lie is made to her parents for letting her out. But being conservative, they wont let her go. So I need a well planned plan to make things work out. What acceptable lie/ story she can make to convince her parents giving her 1-2 weeks time alone/ with her friends/ anything.
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post May 28, 2012, 04:29 PM
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Donīt lie then, just donīt tell the whole truth as plain lies are easier to detect.

She can suddenly feel the urge to be involved in some kind of charity, helping to build homes for homeless, bible study groups, going to preach to small towns far from everywhere, to plant trees, to save foxes or birds in a far forest... Your presence in such activities is just a small insignificant detail not worth mention at all, but it has to be a real activity you are going to actually do and that can be verified.

That is just an idea you can play with.

I wish you the best.
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post May 28, 2012, 07:44 PM
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How old are you two?

Just curious...
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post May 29, 2012, 06:49 AM
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Good question. If she is less than 18 that trip can be a bad idea. I have seen worst though.
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post May 29, 2012, 11:59 AM
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Was wondering what country too. You could be 35 and a slave to parental dictatorship in some countries or cultures. The mention of no work obligations for the time led me to think they may be older.

Could be wrong.

Oooh, a soap in the making. Could be a great drama. ph34r.gif
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